How to Deal With Workplace Politics by Ken Docherty, CPRW www.expertresumewriter.ca
As a professional resume writer in Calgary, I often hear clients
recounting incidents of office politics gone wrong. However, office
politics are not always negative nor do
they always have to result in job loss. Understanding how to respond and
to develop a few strategies to turn the dynamic in your favour can help
your experience with office politics be one that yields positive
results.
Recognize That Politics Is a Necessary Dynamic
Have you ever asked your coworkers to support an idea or defended a
colleague's actions to your supervisor? If so, you have engaged in
office politics.
People rarely achieve consensus, even in small
groups. Hence, people naturally resort to a variety of strategies to
gain an advantage, achieve power, or garner support for an idea. More
often than not, your response is what determines whether it is a
positive or negative experience.
Office politics play a role in your
success, and your ability to navigate the dynamic can be the difference
between a fulfilling or frustrating career.
Build Positive Relationships
Neutrality is one of the most effective strategies to deal with
workplace politics. Rather than forging alliances and taking sides,
focus on building positive relationships with peers based on results and
trust. Avoid building a relationship on a foundation of personality,
values, and preferences, as it might result in a friendship-like a
dynamic that will work against you in the future.
Abstain from Making Disparaging Remarks
Although talking down about a co-worker, boss, or company initiative
might feel good for a moment, long-term it has great power to damage
your reputation. In the future, somebody will use it against you in
order to gain an advantage.
In the event you find yourself in a
situation where your coworkers are gossiping or blowing off steam by
making disparaging remarks, try to remove yourself from the situation.
If that is not an option, refuse to make negative comments and instead
focus on facts.
Listen, Agree, and Understand
Disagreements can be frustrating and occasionally lead to personal
attacks. Rather than taking offence and reciprocating, listen to your
co-worker and look for areas in which you can agree. Additionally, call
out the personal attacks as inappropriate to alter the tone of the
conversation and assume a bit of power.
Try to see the
situation through his or her eyes. Ask questions, listen actively, and
validate their position by agreeing with whatever points you can without
compromising yourself. Your objective should be to grasp the other
party's motivations and needs.
Compromise
Rarely will
you get everything you want out of a situation when other people are
involved. Be flexible and look for win-win solutions. Over time, this
will earn you respect and trust, which will help you achieve your career
goals.
Be the Adult in the Room
Negative office
politics can result in childlike behaviour, for example, gossiping, the
"mine" dynamic, and intimidation or bullying. You can discourage these
behaviours and position yourself as a leader by being assertive,
straightforward, and fact-based in your communications.
Additionally, focusing on the positive and emphasizing benefits will
help change the tone of a conversation and make it easier to negotiate a
compromise.
Finally, exercise a good sense of humour. Few
things can break up a tense situation and ease an awkward situation like
laughter. When you are successful with office politics, note the
positive results and consider including them on your resume as evidence
of your interpersonal skills. If you choose to hire me to be your
professional resume writer in Calgary, I might be able to help you
identify examples that are suitable for your resume.
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
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